Advice for Teens,
Part 3: Your Moon's North Node
By Natori Moore
Welcome ashore, astro-mates!
It's a good bet you've been out surfing the high seas of the Internet and
are ready to relax for a while. If you're like me, you love to go
on line to link up with friends, learn amazing new facts, and travel to
imaginary worlds. If the signs Gemini, Sagittarius or Aquarius are
prominent in your birth chart, you especially enjoy traveling in cyberspace
as well as taking trips in person to places that interest you. (Sagittarians
and travel go together like mice and cheese!) Yet no matter what
astrological sun sign you are, you may have wished for a compass or road
map to give you direction through life. Here's some good news --
there actually is a navigation point you can follow! It's the guiding
light of your astrological chart, called your Moon's North Node.
We won't bother too much
with a technical definition here. It's enough to say that the Moon's
North Node is a point where the path of the Sun and the path of the Moon
cross each other as they travel through the sky. Therefore, the Moon's
North Node is not an actual physical planet, like Mercury or Venus, but
a point in space. Even so, many astrologers believe this energetic
point in the astrological chart holds a key to your life success and integration
-- to bringing all the parts of who you are together. Whether you
are well-acquainted with your astrological chart or are reading about astrology
for the first time, you can develop the qualities of your Moon's North
Node sign as a sure-fire way to make the most of what you've got.
To find your Moon's North
Node sign, see Table 1. You will notice that the Moon's North Node
has a somewhat irregular movement, yet usually stays in one sign for about
one and a half years. This means that people born near you are likely
to have the same Moon's North Node sign as you do. To find which
Moon's North Node sign is yours, locate your birth date in the list in
the first column. Then read across to the right to find your Node
sign.
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Table 1
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If
Your Birthdate is Between:
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Your
Moon's North Node Sign is:
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April 20, 1969 - November
2, 1970
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Pisces
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November 3, 1970 - April
27, 1972
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Aquarius
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April 28, 1972 - October
27, 1973
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Capricorn
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October 28, 1973 - July
10, 1975
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Sagittarius
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July 11, 1975
- Jan 7, 1977
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Scorpio
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Jan 8, 1977 - July 5,
1978
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Libra
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July 6, 1978 - Jan 5,
1980
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Virgo
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Jan 6, 1980 - Jan 7,
1980
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Leo
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Jan 8, 1980 - Jan 12,
1980
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Virgo
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Jan 13, 1980 - Sept
20, 1981
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Leo
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Sept 21, 1981
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Cancer
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Sept 22, 1981 - Sept
24, 1981
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Leo
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Sept 25, 1981 - March
16, 1983
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Cancer
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March 17, 1983 - Sept
11, 1984
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Gemini
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Sept 12, 1984 - April
6, 1986
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Taurus
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April 7, 1986 - May
5, 1986
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Aries
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May 6, 1986 - May 9,
1986
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Taurus
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May 10, 1986 - December
2, 1987
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Aries
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December 3, 1987 - May
22, 1989
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Pisces
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These dates signify one full
revolution of the Moon's North Node through the signs. For those
of you born on dates not listed here (and I'll bet some of you are peeking!),
consult an ephemeris or your
own birth chart to learn your nodal position.
If you have the:
Moon's North Node in Aries
You cooperate easily with
people and make an agreeable friend and companion. You like harmony
and beauty, though at times you can argue a point just for the fun of it.
You probably have talent in music, art or public relations. There
may be a flair for fashion with you, too! Watch out for a tendency
to lean on other people and their opinions more than necessary. Don't
get bogged down in bad romances. Be decisive, trust your judgment,
and be willing to go first. You are here to develop enthusiasm, break
new ground and be a pioneer in some important way. You probably hate
the thought of sports and leadership positions, but they're good for you.
Wear red, enter races, have courage. Your Glittering Prize:
On a foundation of true cooperation, you step out on your own to start
something truly new. Guess who has the Moon's North Node in Aries:
Ashley Judd
Moon's North Node in Taurus
You are a demanding person
with strong emotions. Your desire for intense experiences sometimes
causes you trouble. You sense your potential to be content and stable,
but you often find it hard to get there with your many passions.
Learn to establish inner security and discover your own values. Set
up your own bank account, get a part time job, or make your own money decisions.
You have deep insights into people and life, but need to develop steady
relationships so you can trust and share your insights with others.
You're here to develop patience and learn to appreciate the reward in simple
things. Let situations be without having to investigate, probe or
consume them. Don't get bogged down in addictive behaviors.
Nature and the outdoors are very healing for you. Guess who has the
Moon's North Node in Taurus: Matthew Fox
Moon's North Node in Gemini
You can probably stand to
improve your spelling. And I don't mean Tori Spelling. Education,
especially in practical or technical skills, is very good for you.
You have natural wisdom and can be a great teacher, yet you need to develop
the tools of communication. Reading, writing, radio, television,
telephones, the World Wide Web -- all the tried and true as well as new
and emerging technologies that enable the spreading of a message -- are
beneficial for you to learn in order to grow fully. You might be
a little "rough around the edges" as far as social skills are concerned.
Develop the social ease that will allow you to share your wisdom with others.
(It's probably a good idea to go to that after-school gathering you've
been wondering about, and say hello to someone.) You can discover
whole new worlds right in your own neighborhood. Guess who has the
Moon's North Node in Gemini: Keanu Reeves
Moon's North Node in Cancer
You take life seriously and
are often mature for your age. Your home environment in your growing
up years may have required you to be more responsible than many of your
friends. Your natural discipline will help you accomplish your own
goals when you set your mind to them. You will make a good parent
once you've learned how to be a good parent to yourself first. Comfort
yourself in positive ways, ask for help when you need it, and develop a
career that will enable you to support a family. Deep down you tend
to be impatient with yourself and consider emotions a waste of time.
Learn to define and express your feelings. Spend time with
people, especially women (since Cancer is the "mother" sign of the zodiac)
who are caring and can show you the good side of letting your feelings
show. Guess who has the Moon's North Node in Cancer: Britney
Spears
Moon's North Node in Leo
You secretly want to be a
star! But you act like a rebel or outsider. You're afraid stardom
wouldn't be fair to everyone. You do have a knack for keeping things
equal between your friends. But you also have a warm heart, a generous
spirit, and a likely love of drama, dance, music, art, or confident business
leadership. Whatever your special talent is, you'll need to step
out and express it to be content. Don't try to figure out all the
details ahead of time. People are inspired by your standing forth
and expressing joy, as much as by going along for the good of the group.
Sign up to perform in a school play or assembly. Take in the applause!
Experiment with giving speeches or trying on costumes. Focus your
energy on being creative and developing a powerful personal appearance.
Have fun! It's okay to step out and be noticed. Guess who has
the Moon's North Node in Leo: Christina Ricci
Moon's North Node in Virgo
I see you munching on a Moon-Pie
right now. Imagination and daydreams fuel your soul. You enjoy
movies, poetry, fantasy and the world of romance. Your friends may
easily tell you their problems and you are a born counselor. You
need to become more practical, focused and discriminating. Perhaps
you have been disappointed or betrayed, so that you learn to choose more
carefully next time. It's not that you deserve to be let down in
love and friendship more than anyone else, it's that you're not truly paying
attention to the relationship problems that eventually cause you heartache.
Use your dreams to make other people's lives meaningful. You may
do well creating movies, a flower delivery business, a creative accounting
business, any goal in which you combine imagination and technical skill.
Give attention to your health and personal grooming. Guess who has
the Moon's North Node in Virgo: Clare Danes
Moon's North Node in Libra
A friend of mine with the
Moon's North Node in Libra was arrested for fighting against government
nuclear bomb testing in Nevada. That gives you some idea of the lengths
to which you folks are willing to go to defend your views. You are
a fighter who is used to relying on yourself. Active and accomplished,
you are inspiring to others but may often be lonely. Others may find
you pushy or unnecessarily brash. Develop a balanced viewpoint and
consider the idea that tact, charm and understanding may be useful in getting
people to see your side of things. Someone really should bring you
flowers or candy. You need some soothing sweetness in your life.
C'mon, doesn't that make you melt just a little? Creating long-lasting,
loving relationships may be your greatest achievement. Guess who
has the Moon's North Node in Libra: Fiona Apple
Moon's North Node in Scorpio
You know what you like and
take pleasure in simple things. You may have grown up in a family
or small town in which most people held common beliefs. The "stuff"
you own can help you feel secure. Though your stability is quite
valuable, you'll grow when you take some risks and merge your ideas and
talents with other people. You tend to think in black-and-white,
all-or-nothing terms. Try to see the middle ground. You can
get stuck in a rut, too, and feel that your life is boring. What
do you really want? Take some time to build your desire, then allow
others to help you get there! Treat the great mystery of sexuality
with reverence. You're likely to learn tremendously from it when
the time is right. When you look for meaning and not just security
in your relationships, they give you strength and energy. Guess who
has the Moon's North Node in Scorpio: Alicia Silverstone, Kate Winslet
Moon's North Node in Sagittarius
What a charming trickster
you can be! Intelligent and talkative, you move this way and that,
not wanting to miss any opportunity. You love mental puzzles and
probably watch too many TV game shows. Trouble is, by not choosing
a particular goal and sticking with it, you can miss out on long-range
accomplishments. More than anyone, you can benefit from a college
education. Don't let circumstances keep you away from this worthy
goal. Traveling or living in a foreign country may also be great
for you. Learn to weigh your words before you talk and share understanding,
not just information. You cast a wary eye toward religion, but you'll
need more than your "I do what I can to get by" philosophy to be happy.
Learn to see the big picture of your life, set long-range goals, and get
help from wise people in staying on track toward achieving them.
Guess who has Moon's North Node in Sagittarius: Christian Bale, Leonardo
DiCaprio
Moon's North Node in Capricorn
You are sentimental and relationship-oriented.
You easily grow attached to people you love, and they usually appreciate
you for it. You are sensitive, close to your family, and a bit of
a homebody. Whether your home life is happy or troubled, you may
have a hard time distinguishing your needs and feelings from those of the
people you live with. Try not to take things people say personally.
Develop regular routines (walking the dog, brushing teeth, doing homework
at a certain time each day) that you stick to no matter how you are feeling.
You have great potential to be a leader in any career, but you will need
to work hard to carve out your own path. Spend time with people,
especially men (since Capricorn is the "father" sign of the zodiac) who
are accomplished and can show you the good side of setting and achieving
goals for yourself. Guess who has the Moon's North Node in Capricorn:
Gwyneth Paltrow
Moon's North Node in Aquarius
You're the cat's meow.
At least you like to think so. You have natural "people skills" and
a big heart. You're a born leader who likes to be the "star."
You're a marvelous inspiration when you're feeling generous. Trouble
is, you can get a wee bit too attached to your position, Miss Scarlett.
There are no more slaves to serve you on this plantation. You're
here to learn that friendship is just as important as romance, and that
treating all people with equal concern will open up a fascinating world
beyond your own personal interests. Join a group at school and see
what you can contribute without having to be the star. Allow others
their freedom and their moment in the spotlight. Relax and let someone
else take charge. Lovable as you are, you're not the king or queen
of everything. Guess who has the Moon's North Node in Aquarius:
Mia Hamm, Ricky Martin
Moon's North Node in Pisces
I can tell right now you're
picking your teeth. Or picking on someone. Or figuring out
math problems! Your talent for hard work and keeping busy knows no
bounds. It's only because of you that we survived the Y2K scare and
are now happily functioning in the 21st century. But guess what?
You're here to learn to relax! Sometimes it's not necessary to worry
as much as you do. Pack a picnic and head for the park. Take
up swimming. Learn to meditate. Watch movies and do nothing
for a day. Knowing you, you'll be right back out there at bat the
next day anyway! You're learning to develop greater awareness of
the emotional and spiritual sides of your nature. Take time to remember
and record your dreams. Find the meaning in things that seem
impractical. The happiest moments in your life occur when you combine
your mind with your imagination. Guess who has the Moon's North Node
in Pisces: Matt Damon
Following the direction of
your Moon's North Node sign is quite a bit like being a sailor in ancient
times. To keep their boats on course toward their destination, sailors
kept looking for the North Star (one of the brightest stars in the sky)
to get where they were going. They encountered many obstacles on
their journeys -- pirates, fog, thunderstorms, marshy swamps and more --
yet they kept their focus on the North Star to guide them safely to their
goal. Perhaps you have pirates, fog, thunderstorms and other distractions
in your life, too! Whether it's irritating people, confusion about
relationships or goals, or your own strong emotions, when you get thrown
off course by situations and events in your life, you can look to your
Moon's North Node sign to help you get back on track. Learn as much
as you can about your North Node sign and try to develop its best characteristics.
Make friendships with people born under the Sun sign that matches your
Moon's North Node sign and see what you can learn from them.
Here's a surprising example
of two people who did just that. By teaming up to star in the hit
movie Titanic, Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio were able to grow and
learn from each other. Even through playing movie roles, Kate and
Leo benefited from their association through a link between Kate's North
Node Sign in Scorpio and Leonardo's Sun Sign in Scorpio. The character
Jack Dawson (played by Leonardo) naturally influenced the character Rose
De Witt Bukater (played by Kate) in developing qualities of the Scorpio
sign. These qualities include passion, risk taking, experiencing
strong emotion, admitting deep desires, working as a team in a crisis situation,
developing trust, even rebuilding a new life after death. Though
Rose's family didn't understand her need to grow beyond her familiar surroundings,
she knew there was something more for her beyond her experience and was
willing to take a risk to discover what it was. When we do this in
a way befitting the sign qualities of our Moon's North Node, we are usually
exhilarated and happy!
What about Leo, you ask?
He learned from his participation in Titanic too! His Moon's North
Node sign is Sagittarius, sign of the adventurer and wise person.
Leonardo's role as Jack Dawson exposed him to upper class people and their
habits, took him on a long-distance trip, and portrayed him as developing
skill in drawing and art (all Sagittarian themes). He also gambled
his way onto a BIG boat in a BIG movie (more Sagittarian ideas) and began
to find direction for his vagabond life through his love for Rose.
(Of course a sinking ship helped focus his attention, too!) The real-life
Leonardo might do well to make friends with Sagittarian people. By
doing so, he can further develop wisdom, focus and adventure-with-purpose
-- all key traits of the Sagittarius sign.
Now all of the above is just
the "tip of the iceberg," if you know what I mean! Next comes putting
it to use in your life. Astrology can be even more exciting than
sea journeys, soap operas, movies or romance novels. It's a great
adventure with interesting characters (the planets) who wear intriguing
costumes (astrological signs) and move through fascinating terrain (constellations
in the sky). There's often a new plot twist (new positions of the
planets) around every corner. The way the planets move presents wonderful
changing pictures of beauty and mystery -- like looking into the kaleidoscope
of life at a Great Design. And you’re part of the action! I
hope you'll continue to learn more about your Moon's North Node sign and
how to use the stars to guide you. Here's to the best of success
as you reach for your dreams!
Originally appeared in Dell
Horoscope, April 2000